Relationship Evaluation

by | Jun 11, 2014 | Counselling, From a Counselor's point of view, Helpfull advice, Motivational | 0 comments

Relationships

Relationship Evaluation
How is your Relationship/Marriage Doing?

Listed Below is a list of attitudes and activities that produce healthy relationships. Rate yourselves on a scale of 1 (Low) to 10 (High).
*Make sure you rate each other!

1. Do I give myself unselfishly to my Relationship and partner?
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2. Do we agree on the husband and wife role?
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3. Do I always put my love over in action and gestures?
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4. Do my communication build up my Spouse?
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5. Does my response to conflict build up or break down my partner?
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6. Do I always forgive my spouse when I am wronged?
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7. Do we work toghether on our parenting skills?
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8. Do I patiently accept my spouse as one who is not perfect?
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9. Do we often evaluate our relationship and set realistic goals for improvement?
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10. Do we strive and nurture loving relationships with our in-laws?
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11. Am I able to control my anger/temper?
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12. Do we spend time together doing what my partner enjoys doing?
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13. Do I work hard to be an attractive and interesting Partner?
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14. Do I work diligently to satisfy the romantic and sexual desires of my partner?
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15. Do I make an effort to fulfil in my partners Emotional need and desires?
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Purpose of this Exercise:

This exersice is to biuld up your relationship and to encourage positve behaviour.
Enoy

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